How to Be an Amazing Lover

Be honest — does any of this sound familiar?

It's over before you wanted it to be. You'd love to last longer, but your body has other plans.

You're stuck in your head when you wish you were in the moment. "Am I doing this right? Are they into this?" — and just like that, you've mentally left the room.

The spark that used to feel effortless now feels like work. You still love them. You just miss the heat.

None of this means anything is wrong with you. You are not broken, and you are not alone. Like most of us, nobody ever taught you these skills. In two hours, we will help you change all this.

What you'll learn to do

1. Enjoy lovemaking as long as you both desire. Learn to ride the wave of arousal instead of racing to the finish line. Stay in control, stay present, and discover that the best part is not just the destination — but also the whole, delicious journey and more.

2. Become the amazingly attuned lover you always wanted to be. Learn to actually feel what your partner wants before they say a word — to read their body, their breath, their energy — and give the kind of legendary pleasure that your partner can’t stop thinking about.

3. Turn off your busy mind and turn on the connection. Trade performance anxiety for pure presence — the single most magnetic, irresistible thing you can bring into the bedroom (and it works everywhere else, too).

What this is

A two-hour, hands-on expansion of the playshop ScottieO and Samantha are bringing to the TantraAmour Festival in France this summer — happening right here in Austin first. In a grounded, playful, respectful space, you'll drop out of your head, into your body, and explore the art of conscious connection through guided exercises in breath, presence, embodiment, consent, and heart-centered relating.

Everything is invitational — you always choose your own level of participation, and no prior Tantra experience is needed. This class is targeted for couples, but if you aren't in a relationship with someone right now, come bring a friend that you're willing to practice with. All adults are welcome. No pressure, no performance, no expectation — just like-hearted people learning to connect.

What you'll walk away with

• Real skills you can use that very night — not theory, not vibes. Things your hands, your breath, and your body will remember.
• A felt sense of how to stay present in your body, even in the most charged moments.
• Consent and boundary language you can use without awkwardness.
• Communication tools that make intimacy more open and a whole lot easier.
• Real confidence connecting with others, on your own terms.
• Great new connections with amazing people.

Taught by the real deal — facilitators who've devoted their lives to this work and know how to make a room feel safe enough to be brave.

Come as you are. Bring your curiosity and your breath. Let's practice.

If inspired, you may also learn more about this festival: tantramourfestival.com

Your guides

ScottieO McClure is an internationally renowned Love Life Coach, best-selling author, and the founder of Ecstatic Hearts™ and Radiant Hearts Fest™ global platforms for retreats, playshops, festivals, online training, and private coaching. For over 20 years he has guided thousands of students toward their deepest desires — especially in love — by blending authentic Tantric wisdom with grounded, modern practice. His primary lineage runs through Babaji Nagaraj and wisdom incorporates over a dozen world class teachers; with his MBA and hundreds of thousands invested in his own training, his teaching comes with a practical, results-minded edge. He's the best-selling co-author of Passion: Living the Life You Love with Tony Robbins, has appeared in the films The Answer to Everything and The Answer to Health, and his message has reached millions through features on the Learning Channel, Netflix, Daily Mail, Men's & Women's Health, and the New York Post. Heart-centered, provocative, and genuinely masterful — he propels growth through play.

Samantha Marvels is an IBH Certified Hypnotherapist and Tantric Coach whose work bridges clinical hypnotherapy with Tantric philosophy. She specializes in helping people build safety in the body — regulating the nervous system, gently rewiring the core beliefs and subconscious patterns that hold us back, and guiding the shift from performing to actually experiencing life. Her approach is warm, direct, and trauma-informed — grounded equally in science and spirit. Through group hypnosis, one-on-one sessions, and in-person workshops, she creates spaces where nothing is judged, every part of you is welcome, and transformation happens at the root.

Together, they make a room feel less like a workshop and more like a warm invitation.

Save your spot

Class: How to Be an Amazing Lover, with ScottieO & Samantha

When: Saturday, July 18 · 3:00–5:00 PM CST

Where: 1717 Arial Dr, Austin, TX 78753

Who: Targeted for couples, or you can bring a friend, all experience levels — come as you are

Cost: $195/couple · or $169/couple early bird before July 14